I was sitting with some of my girlfriends in our favorite Jazz Club, and some guy was texting me and as I was not responding to the textes, my friends asked me what was up? I said I just don't know how to answer to this , I need to calm myself down as his textes are upsetting me! So one of them said, just say "I'm still thinking!" which made me laugh and say , absolutely! spot on chicka!